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š 7 Steps to Coaching With Impact
Positive coaching isnāt about sugarcoating the truth or avoiding tough conversations.
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Here's what's coming: Coaching isnāt just about strategyāitās about leadership. In this issue, we break down 7 Steps to Coach With Impact, showing how your words, energy, and approach can build confidence, strengthen trust, and create a culture where players thrive.
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7 Steps to Coaching With Impact

COACHES: Your words can build confidenceāor destroy it. Your energy can inspireāor deflate. Coaching isnāt just about Xās and Oās. Itās about how you lead.
Positive coaching isnāt about sugarcoating the truth or avoiding tough conversations.
Itās about creating an environment where players can thrive, grow, and perform at their best.
It shifts the focus from short-term wins to long-term growthāon and off the court.
When done right, positive coaching:
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Builds confidence in players.
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Creates a resilient, healthy mindset.
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Strengthens trust within a team.
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Promotes a ājoy in the journeyā approach.
So, what does positive coaching look like in practice?
Here are 7 Steps to Coach With Impact:
1. Effort > Outcome
Great coaches focus on what players can control: effort and attitude. Positive coaching emphasizes rewarding hustle, grit, and commitment over just the scoreboard.
Ask Yourself: Are you celebrating effort in practice and games?
Example: Highlight a playerās hustle on defense or their leadership on the benchānot just the game-winning shot.
2. Bring Positive Energy
Positive energy is contagious. A coachās tone sets the vibe for the team. When you model enthusiasm and positivity, players are more likely to mirror it.
Tip: Start each practice with high energy, a smile, and an encouraging tone.
Example: Use a positive mantra, such as āNext play, best play!ā to keep your energy up after mistakes.
3. Focus on Relationships
Coaching is a people business. Players wonāt care how much you know until they know how much you care. Build trust through genuine connections.
Action Step: Spend one-on-one time with your players to learn their goals and motivations.
Example: Have weekly ācheck-insā where players can share their highs and lows.
4. Focus on the Process
The process is where growth happens. Teach your players to love the grind because thatās where champions are made.
Mindset Shift: Instead of focusing on winning the game, focus on winning the next play, next rep, or next drill.
Example: Celebrate small wins, like a player mastering a new skill or improving their focus during practice.
5. Create a Positive Culture
Culture is built every day, not just in preseason meetings. Positive coaches invest consistently in their culture, knowing that it pays dividends over time.
Tip: Define your team values and revisit them regularly.
Example: Start each week with a āCulture Momentā to reinforce values like respect, effort, or teamwork.
6. Have a Healthy Approach to Failure
Failure isnāt fatal; itās feedback. Teach your players to see mistakes as opportunities to learn and grow.
Phrase to Use: āWhat can we learn from this?ā instead of āWhy did this happen?ā
Example: After a loss, focus on growth areas instead of placing blame.
7. Give Clear and Honest Feedback
Positive coaching doesnāt mean avoiding tough conversations. It means delivering honest feedback in a constructive way.
Tip: Use the āCriticism Sandwichā methodāstart with a positive, address the issue, and finish with encouragement.
Example: āYour effort in practice has been great. Letās work on boxing out better on reboundsāI know you can do it.ā
The Bottom Line
Positive coaching is about growth, relationships, and creating an environment where players want to succeed - not just for the team but for themselves.
By following these seven steps, youāll not only become a better coach but also leave a lasting impact on your playersā lives.
Positive coaching is contagious - start spreading it today!
Reflective Question: What is one step you can take this week to become a more positive coach?
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š TWO QUOTES
"A coach is someone who can give correction without causing resentment". Wooden also said, "It's the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen.ā
"Somewhere behind the athlete you've become and the hours of practice and the coaches who have pushed you is a little girl who fell in love with the game and never looked backā¦ play for her.ā
š THREE POSTS FROM OTHERS
Don't worry about being the best. Worry about being the best at getting better.
All you can control is your effort. You've got no idea what is going on in the lives of other people and vice-versa. Focus on continual improvement. Let the chips fall where they may.
ā Brad Stulberg (@BStulberg)
1:00 AM ā¢ Dec 10, 2024
Dick Vermeil said, "The number one concept is to make sure people know you care. If you want to win over a person, first you have to win over their heart."
You coach people, not players.
ā¢ Great leaders care.
ā¢ Great leaders connect.
ā¢ Great leaders influence.ā Coach AJ šÆ Mental Fitness (@coachajkings)
1:58 AM ā¢ Dec 10, 2024
Be confident, yet also humble. Believe that you can reach your biggest goals, but understand that it won't be easy.
ā Sports Psychology (@SportPsychTips)
3:00 PM ā¢ Dec 10, 2024
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