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Lessons every coach learnsāsome the hard way. Save yourself the struggle and get straight to the truth.
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Here's what's coming: Coaching is a journey, and the lessons along the way are priceless. Today, Iām sharing 25 Hard-Earned Coaching Truths Iāve learned over 30+ years in coaching and leadership.
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25 Coaching Truths Revealed
Coaching is quite the journey.
A rollercoaster of highs and lows, victories and setbacks.
Along the way, itās not just the players who grow; coaches evolve and grow, too.
After 30+ years in coaching, Iāve had my share of wins, losses, and everything in between.
Through it all, Iāve been documenting the insights, truths, and principles that have shaped my coaching philosophy.
Here are 25 of those hard-earned coaching truths
1-5: The Foundation
Every great team starts with a strong foundation. These truths are the bedrock of successful coaching and team building.
1. What you allow is what youāll get. Culture is built on the behaviors you tolerate.
2. Energy is contagious. Your players feed off your attitudeābring it every day. Your energy is your most powerful tool as a leaderālearn how to channel it effectively here.
3. The best teams are player-led. Develop leaders who take ownership. That is exactly why I created the Team Leader OS.
4. Consistency builds trust. If you arenāt consistent, your players wonāt believe in you.
5. The fundamentals always matter. A great team never outgrows the basics.
6-10: The Process
Once the foundation is set, the process takes over. Success isnāt randomāitās built through purposeful preparation and attention to detail.
6. Prepare with purpose. A great plan beats great intentions.
7. Little things are the big things. Details win games.
8. Effort is non-negotiable. You canāt coach heart, but you can demand effort.
9. The scoreboard is a liar. Focus on the process, not just the outcome.
10. Patience is part of the job. Progress takes timeātrust the journey.
11-15: Relationships
Coaching is all about relationships. Players wonāt follow you unless they know you care. These truths will help you build trust and connection with your team
11. Players donāt care how much you know until they know how much you care.
12. Listen more than you speak. Connection starts with understanding.
13. Every player is different. Coach individuals, not just systems.
14. Praise effort, not talent. Build confidence in what they can control.
15. Be present. Players will remember how you made them feel.
16-20: Leadership
Leadership is about action, not just words. These truths will help you lead by example and inspire your team, especially in challenging moments.
16. Lead by example. Your actions set the tone for your team.
17. Accountability starts with you. Hold yourself to the same standards you expect.
18. Adversity reveals character. Tough moments are where true leadership shines.
19. Your job is to serve, not control. Great leaders lift others up.
20. Culture is built every day. Itās not a one-time talkāitās a constant commitment.
21-25: Winning the Right Way
Winning isnāt just about the scoreboardāitās about doing things the right way. These truths will help you focus on what truly matters and leave a lasting legacy.
21. Winning is a byproduct of preparation. Focus on what leads to success.
22. Celebrate progress. Donāt wait until itās perfect to acknowledge growth.
23. Your words have power. Be intentional with how you speak to your team.
24. Stay humble in victory and gracious in defeat. How you handle both speaks volumes.
25. Never stop learning. The best coaches are lifelong students of the game and of life.
Final Thought
Coaching isnāt just about Xās and Oāsāitās about shaping people and leaving a lasting legacy.
These truths have guided me for 30 years. Which one will guide you this week?
Make it a great week, Coach!
Greg
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