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🏆 12 Ways Coaches Can Hurt their Team Culture.
The #1 responsibility of a coach is to build the culture of the team and program they are leading.
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ONE THOUGHT
Coaches can HURT their team culture too. How does it happen?
The #1 responsibility of a coach is to build the culture of the team and program they are leading.
Coaches must know that every decision they make impacts their team culture and has a tremendous impact on the team and program.
Developing culture is an ongoing process, even for veteran coaches.
As coaches, we all have the ability to hurt our team or program culture, just as players can. Coaches often do not even know it is happening until it is too late.
Culture is always a long-term commitment. It is about consistency. It is about success over the long haul.
And ultimately, Culture WINS.
I define culture as:
What you Allow
What you Emphasize
Every Day
COACHES: You are what you Emphasize.
▪️ This defines who you are as a coach.
▪️ This defines your priorities.
▪️ This defines your CULTURE.Emphasize 3-5 things that are non-negotiable for you.
Do this every day.
#CultureWins
#LeadershipMatters— Greg Berge (@gb1121)
11:00 PM • Aug 9, 2022
It is crucial that a coach thinks about their culture with every decision that is being made.
As the primary leader of the program, the coach sets the standards. They determine what is allowed and emphasized, and they are tasked to do this daily.
Culture is also very fragile. It can take years to build, but it can be destroyed quickly.
Players can destroy culture with their behavior and actions if a coach does not address them. I wrote about this in an earlier newsletter.
Coaches can also destroy a culture with their own actions or lack of action.
Below is a list of 12 ways how coaches hurt their team culture.
1: Empower talented players w/poor character
Talent is important. But it cannot trump character. If you allow kids with more talent to get away with poor choices, it will sabotage your culture. Don’t sacrifice the long term for the short term. It never works. Play the long game with culture.
2: Favoritism of own child
Some coaches get blinders with their own children. They play them ahead of others who are more deserving. They recommend them for awards they didn’t earn. This cannot happen. The coach loses the team's respect, making it hard to get it back. Be objective, and use your assistants; it can be done.
3: Not lead by example
The coach is the primary leader of the program. Coaches cannot ask others to do something they are unwilling to do themselves. A coach does not have to be perfect. But a coach must work to lead by example and be a good human being.
4: Not be committed
Coaches want commitment from kids. Coaches must commit too. They must put in the time. They must be dedicated. No Deposit - No Return. Kids and parents can see the commitment of a coach. It is much harder to criticize coaches when it is known they are doing their part and putting in the time and commitment.
5: Be too controlling
It is great to have high standards. It is excellent to hold others accountable. It is NOT great to try and control every movement on or off the court of your players. Too much control from the coach will create negative players. Find your sweet spot. Have standards, but focus on winning the war and not just the battle.
6: Not address bad behavior
If you allow bad behavior and do not address it on your team, your culture will erode quickly. What you ALLOW becomes your culture. Other players pick up on this too. Be consistent.
7: Pick the wrong leaders
Player leadership is HUGE on a team. Player-led teams win. Sometimes coaches pick kids who they WANT to be leaders and not kids who have the voice of the team. This can be an automatic culture killer. Find your tone setters. Find your leaders. Find those who are deserving and committed. Ask your players. Check out my FREE Pre-Season Perception handout for how I use player feedback to help select captains and determine roles early in the season.
8: Bad mouth your players
Don’t bad mouth your players. It will get back to them and the team. When this happens, a coach will lose the trust of the team. Poor team culture is sure to follow. Be 100% honest and open with players. Do not talk behind their back.
9: Not honest about roles
Coaches have to be clear and honest about player roles. Don’t tell players what they want to hear. Tell them the truth. Unclear roles create bitterness in a team. Players start bad-mouthing the coach or other players.
10: Poor communication
Communication is essential for a coach. Not just with players but with parents, administration, and the community. Poor communication creates uncertainty. It creates distrust. Focus on being proactive and communicating clearly with all stakeholders in your program. This will prevent a lot of issues that can quickly erode a culture.
11: Disorganization
Coaching is an incredibly dynamic job. There is a lot to it. A coach must be organized. When they are not, kids lose trust and direction. The standards are lowered. The culture is lowered as well.
12: Not listen to your players
Coaches need to listen to their players. The team leaders have the pulse of the team. If they come to you with ideas or thoughts, listen. Reach out to them as well. When a coach does not listen, the players lose faith and trust, and when you do not have trust, a negative culture will follow.
I am sure this list is incomplete. I am sure there are many other examples of how the actions or inaction of a coach can hurt a team's culture.
Coaching is an incredibly challenging and dynamic job.
It is hard to be a coach.
It is easy for others to criticize and judge when they are not in the arena.
As coaches, we must remember that we control our Culture Each and Every Day. Make sure you are not doing things that will negatively impact or destroy the culture of your team.
Be conscious of this and make daily decisions that create the culture you want for your program and team!
Good Luck!
TWO QUOTES
"If we magnified blessings as much as we magnify disappointments, we would all be much happier."
"The wolf on the top of the hill is never as hungry as the wolf climbing the hill."
THREE TWEETS
Every morning I wake up, I have TWO goals:
1. Be better than I was yesterday!
2. Empower others to do the same!
— Coach Hines 🇺🇸 (@CoachKurtHines)
2:14 PM • Jul 14, 2022
Learning the skill of delayed gratification is a great predictor of a child’s future success. Without this skill it’s hard to understand that things don’t just fall into your lap. Translation: Life will not hand you anything. You have to be patient & work for it. Nothing is free!
— Jon Beck (@CoachJonBeck)
4:09 PM • May 28, 2022
10 things that bring LIFE to team culture:
1. Knowing your why
2. Understanding your role
3. Service to others
4. Empowering each other
5. Being ALL IN
6. Giving more than expected
7. Accountability
8. Selflessness
9. Training with the team
10. Love~ via @CoachKurtHines
— Coaching Advice (@CoachingAdvice)
5:00 PM • Jan 31, 2022
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